Erotic mental stimulation
For many clients, stimulating the mind is as crucial as stimulating the body. They seek to live out their erotic fantasies in various contexts such as school, work, travel, or in any other sexual situation they haven’t explored in real life or wish to relive. This is where adult sex role-playing comes in, which can be as simple as a disguise or as complex as playing a movie character. Good couples role-playing requires a certain amount of improvisation, but it’s best to be as prepared as possible before you start. Everyone is familiar with the game of dominant and dominated offered by a sexual master.
Common fantasies in erotic role play
As an escort in Geneva, you may encounter dozens of unique fantasies. Some involve simply wearing a costume and acting out a pornographic scenario, while others demand total immersion in a role without ever leaving it.
Costume-based fantasies
These fantasies focus more on what you’re wearing than what you’re doing. They can be reminiscent of clichéd pornographic scenarios where you often have to take the lead. In these games, your client wants to see you dressed as a schoolgirl, a sexy librarian, a pirate, a ballerina, a French maid or even a furry jumpsuit. The important thing is to get into character, but appearance is everything. Playing the gynecologist is surely the best-known adult sex scenario of its kind.
While costume fantasies can be as simple as sexy Halloween costumes, some require more effort for sex play. Customers may request that you embody a celebrity or fictional character such as Supergirl or their favorite video game character, which may require more effort or make-up, necessitating an adjustment to your fee. It’s also possible that the customer will want to dress up, something to be aware of in advance.
Fantasy scenarios
These scenarios require more preparation than simple disguises. Appearance is still important, but the customer wants to experience a sexual situation that is taboo, uncommon or impossible in real life. This is not an online sex game, but pure reality.
The customer may want you to play the role of a scolding teacher after class, a disciplining in-law or a student unable to pay for a pizza delivery. The scenarios are endless, and it’s crucial to stay in character. Read your client as best you can, but generally take the initiative to make the situation dominating. Fantasy scenarios often involve a power dynamic or taboo, such as a policeman giving a ticket or a thief robbing a house. They can also address serious taboos like incest or being caught cheating on your partner.
Sometimes the scenarios are not exaggerated and can be as simple as a sexy woman seducing a plumber. They often add a sexual dimension to everyday situations of vulnerability, such as visits to the doctor or massages. Fantasies such as hypnotism or having sex with someone asleep require a level of comfort and mutual trust before they can be accepted.
Emotional fantasies
Some clients want to simulate an emotional connection or relive encounters with someone important to them, often an ex-partner or spouse. Sometimes, it’s not even about sex. This is a vulnerable situation for both you and your client, and sensitivity is crucial.
They may want you to look and act like someone they once knew. Only accept this if you’re totally comfortable and able to meet the request. These fantasies may require a lot of preparation, and you need to stick to the planned scenario. In this case, it’s best not to talk too much, letting the customer express his or her feelings. Emotional fantasies can be complex and uncomfortable, so it’s perfectly acceptable to refuse if you don’t feel comfortable.
How to prepare for a role-play?
Prepare your role-play in advance
Whatever the type of role-play, preparation is essential. For costume fantasies, you may already have outfits in mind. Send a photo before the appointment to make sure it matches the customer’s expectations. And don’t forget to imagine ideas, scenarios and future positions for the role-play.
Characters like soldiers, firemen or cops are easy to disguise, while others can be more specialized. If the customer wants a video game, TV or movie character, ask for a photo to get a clear idea. Look for video clips of the character to imitate their voice and mannerisms as closely as possible.
They may want something specific, or leave you free with the costume. As long as you’re comfortable and the costume is clean, you’re fine. However, all costs associated with costumes must be borne by the customer.
Communicate with your client before role-playing
Fantasy scenarios require a little more preparation. Communicate with the customer about their expectations regarding your actions, behavior and clothing. Some customers know exactly what they want, while others are more shy and need you to ask the right questions.
It’s crucial to know whether the scenario should be overtly sexual or natural. For example, asking a policeman if you can blow him to get out of a ticket is not the same as proposing an off-the-record arrangement. Determine whether the customer wants you to make the situation sexual or if he wants to take the lead, and adjust your behavior accordingly. Emotional fantasies require the most preparation, so discuss them in detail with the client before the session.
For all role-playing, establish clear limits with your client before the meeting, and set a safe word even if the session seems comfortable.
Saying no to sexual role-play
It’s important to say no to any fantasy that makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, whether before the appointment or during the session. Refuse any fantasies involving minors. If you have no experience of BDSM, avoid fantasies involving pain or violence, and familiarize yourself with extreme practices before trying them with a client.
Be honest with yourself and your client about your abilities and specialties. Refuse emotional fantasies if you can’t be emotionally available. Don’t try to realize a fantasy that repels you. Role-playing requires some preparation, but with a little research and communication, it can become enjoyable.
