Difference between porn and escort sex in Geneva
Don't mix porn and escorting
It can happen that a client is disappointed by his first encounter with an escort because it didn't turn out to be as erotic as he'd hoped. He thought he would experience the kind of sex he watches on Pornhub and have a great time with a beautiful escort from Geneva. He was expecting lots of loud sex, wild sexual styles and a particular fetish that's very popular on porn sites. He had even planned to shoot a POV video while she performed oral sex on him.
To his dismay, his Geneva escort didn't offer half what he expected. She even refused to record anything. And even though she was remarkable in bed, he remained unsatisfied. This case highlights the eternal misconception that men the world over have about sex with professionals: it's like porn, and probably better. In reality, and although they share a number of similarities, the two differ in many ways.
The misconception of Geneva escort porn
As with many sex-related entities, there's a lot of confusion about the Geneva escort business, even among clients. The most common misconception is that the sex shown in porn is the same as that practiced everywhere. Yet, as studies have shown, many sexual acts made famous by porn are not as popular with ordinary people. Like cumming on people's faces, swallowing semen, extremely rough sex, fisting and many more.
The same applies to Geneva escorts, who are also human beings. In their case, it's the client who determines the type of sex he wants, depending on what he wants. But it also depends on what she's prepared to offer. Some are clearly interested in single sex from the outset, while others can't stand it. The problem is that many novice clients think that all forms of porn-style sex are always on the menu. They may even try to force a girl to do things she doesn't like.
At the end of the day, porn is very different from sex with a Geneva escort. If you're new to the world of escorting, you should expect some differences, as we explain below.
How a client meeting works in Geneva
If there's one misconception that irritates Geneva escorts, it's the fact that many clients assume that things have to follow a certain formula during a sexual session. They forget that the session can unfold as they wish. The problem lies in the fact that many customers take porn as their main source of reference. This is obviously a bad idea, as porn and sex differ in this respect.
In porn, all videos seem to follow a certain structure according to which all sexual acts are performed. They usually start with a blowjob and go through several sexual styles before ending with another blowjob. If it's a pornographic film, the plots are always predictable and the structure is always the same.
The viewer might be led to believe that the same is true of sex in real life. In fact, the opposite is true. When you have sex with an escort in Geneva, you can have it any way you like. Sex is what you make of it, it doesn't need to be structured. Sex workers are pleasure-seekers, and it's not necessarily necessary to start with oral sex. In fact, some escorts don't offer fellatio at all. This doesn't mean that the whole sexual experience will be bad afterwards. It can still be perfect.
Between film and reality
One of the biggest differences between porn and real-life sex with a Geneva escort is that it's accessed by different means. Both are about sex, but there's a difference. Porn is accessed through recordings of sex sessions, sex with a pro is accessed through reality and real-time sex sessions. This difference translates into different expectations on the part of some customers. Because it's accessible via recordings, porn is only broadcast in its most perfect form. As a result, customers begin to expect their sexual relationship to be as perfect as what they see in porn.
But porn isn't perfect by accident. Few people can have passionate, nerve-wracking sex in more than five different positions for nearly 30 minutes. Not even the actors. They take long breaks and recharge between shoots. What's more, they do several takes for each scene in the video. In the end, a 30-minute video may require nearly 4 hours of shooting and video. Real sex with escorts is far from perfect. It's unedited because it takes place in real time, without recording. There's a time limit, but there's no need to repeat anything you might have done wrong. It's natural, unpredictable and fun.
Marathons or sprints for escort clients in Geneva
For the average man, when it comes to sex, it's all about how long he can last before getting off on it. Every man would like to last long enough to satisfy his partner over and over again. Unfortunately, nature doesn't offer men this freedom. But the internet, with a particular nod to porn, doesn't think it's worth thinking about.
Thanks to pornographic videos, a number of male clients think they have to stay in bed for very long with Geneva escorts to be considered good lovers. Short durations are synonymous with shame and discomfort. This is another case of porn being used to influence sex with a sex worker, although the two are very different.
On the one hand, pornography is a huge lie. Few men can go an hour without shooting up. In pornographic videos, male actors seem to give it their all for a quarter or half hour. Many men take this at face value, forgetting that pornographic videos are closely edited to cut out any breaks the actor may have taken.
They also forget that some pornographic actors regularly take drugs to enhance their sexual performance. Sex with an escort will last as long as you can, whether that's 3 minutes or 45 minutes. And if you think you can't last that long, they always know how to handle it.
Fantasy and real life for Geneva escort clients
One of the big differences between porn and real-life sex with a Geneva escort is that one is fantasy and the other is reality. This is best expressed through the sexual acts that everyone allows and trivializes. In pornography, all sexual acts are desirable and authorized. Actors explore a long list of sexual acts from fellatio to cunnilingus to sodomy. Porn suggests that sexual acts such as cumming on a woman's face are attractive. Even extreme forms of sexual pleasure are presented as highly pleasurable, such as fisting, BDSM and even rape. Many clients are usually exposed to porn long before they decide to hire escorts, which forms their judgment of what sex should look like.
But in real life, sex with a Geneva escort doesn't allow for all these sexual acts. Only a handful offer some of these services as specialists. Some sex acts are frowned upon by some girls, like getting laid and bareback sex. Even anal is not essential. Customers who expect these styles to be basic offerings will always be in for a nasty surprise.
Porn film perfection
When customers book escorts in Geneva, they tend to think that the best sex is the kind that can be described as alien. They imagine perfect, fluid sex with the most beautiful bodies. Unfortunately, this influences their expectations and they go to escorts hoping for perfection, which they'll never find. This is a direct result of the influence of the porn industry.
Porn videos give the impression that sex is perfect. They employ actors who don't have the slightest blemish on their skin and make them up to look even more beautiful. Pornographic videos also take advantage of the fact that they are recorded. Each video is edited for clarity and smoothness, which means cutting out any pauses taken by the actors or sweat they've let out. Most importantly, all errors are removed. The end result can be as little as ten minutes of perfect sex.
This is exactly the kind of sex you don't get when you book a sex worker in Geneva. Sex in real life is messy, full of stops and starts and lasts no more than ten minutes when done right. There can be unexpected fluids, ups and downs in performance, mistakes. Best of all, no one looks quite so perfect when they're naked. Sex in another world doesn't exist, even with escorts.
Films or recordings forbidden for clients in Geneva
One of the biggest misconceptions clients have when visiting an escort in Geneva is that sessions can be recorded. The idea is suggested by porn and its point-of-view (POV) videos. Customers think it applies to real life too. But it doesn't. POV videos in porn are generally used to film specific sexual actions such as fellatio or penetration in close-up. They're supposed to add a little naughtiness and eroticism to the porn video.
In the case of POVs on fellatio, they also make the scene even sexier. And of course, the whole video has to be recorded to be sold for profit. But in real life, cameras and other recording devices are not welcome during sex. You might think that a POV video of an escort manipulating your penis would be perfect for your friends or for an anonymous amateur porn site, but she won't allow it. Escorts live for their discretion and invisibility, especially in the age of privacy hacking. Don't come with a camera in the hope of recording every moment of your session with her.
The size of Geneva's clients
If there's one major mistake clients make today when meeting escorts in Geneva, it's assuming that all of them are looking for men with extra-large penises. Many clients lose sleep over this. Others worry that it will devalue them. And that's where escort sex differs from porn - again. It's hard to find a pornographic video on the internet featuring a male actor with a small or thin penis. It's almost as if they don't exist in the porn world.
Instead, male actors tend to have thicker or larger penises, mostly bigger than the average man. For the average man who watches porn, this has become the ideal to achieve. Any size smaller than what they see is a source of anxiety. Yet in real life, Geneva escorts don't worry so much about penis size, unless it's abnormally too big to handle. They expect penises of all sizes. They know that if a penis is too small, they'll find a way to accommodate it. What's more, most men forget that this is a transaction and that escorts aren't there to judge them, but to work. Size shouldn't be a concern when it comes to a sex professional.
